thoughts and lessons learned

  • I have some thoughts and lessons learned now that I seem to have successfully escaped the catfish Domme I wrote about in an earlier post.  that is easier said than done given that the brainwashing she employs is not only not easy to detect but is incredibly effective She has quite a few guys wrapped around Her finger just like I was for a few days. Boy was I.

     

    A word to the wise:  When a Domme.. any Domme... refers to her followers/slaves as "losers" she does not respect them and should be avoided.

    I do have a fantasy--at times a craving--  to be a woman's slave.  But does that make me a loser?  I don't think so. It's just a fetish.. one that most men including me keep rather hidden.  Dommes need slaves as much as slaves need Dommes for one can't have one without the other.

     

    When a Woman makes it crystal clear that all she is after is a guy's money that's a big red flag.  yes I understand that for Most who practice it, Femdom is a business and thus they need to make money. But that doesn't mean that they should just think of a man as her personal ATM. Men, even those who are slaves and subs, are still people.  Both men and women matter.

    Financial Domination is a line I don't want to cross and at the end of the day that prevented me from being truly sucked in by Goddess Nicolette.  I may have had some deep hypnotic suggestions way back when by someone I don't even remember that have protected me here.

     

    Brainwashing and hypnotic domination when done well are real and should not be dismissed. They can be stimulating and fun fantasies but do present a real danger if the sub goes too far or if the Domme lacks in ethics.  We all likely have different limits and tolerances so one sub's limits may be less deep than anothers. So what could stay as a fun fantasy for one could devolve into a true danger for another.  I've never really understood this before and think this is only now being crystalized in my mind. I will try my best going forward to understand the needs and limits of others better than I have in the past. Still, I find myself seeking out the most powerful mind control from a Domme I can find. It's never enough.

     

     

     

    Sometimes I wonder why I even want to be a slave and if I truly do.  But the fantasy lives on and can not be ignored. Maybe years of hypnosis have done this.. or maybe all that hypnosis have simply capitalized on needs and fantasies I already had. No idea.

     

    One thing I struggle with, is that to get my cravings met.. I try to get as close to the line as possible without crossing it (the difference between far enough and too far)  but each time I do this that line moves a little farther and I need to go further. I am not even sure I know exactly where that line is sometimes.

     

    This post is meant for my fellow subs in inraptured. It may be that Dommes feel similarly, I don't know. Sort of like..men and women need each other but often have a hard time understanding each other.

     

    i'll stop here before i ramble and start spouting nonsense which maybe I already am.

     

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  • germshep24
    germshep24 Nice little blog slaveofhypnosis, few things to add: "loser" is a fetish term used for humiliation slaves, which financial domination works very well with, so more of an indicator isn't if she calls her slaves losers but if she calls one of her...  more
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