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• Matthew Baer

  

  • 4 posts
   

  June 2, 2018 10:08 AM PDT

  I told the woman I'm dating about all this and she is INTO it!!! So exciting. We talked it over and want it to be a mutual thing.
  
  Now, I am not a submissive. I'm a fetishist and hypno enthusiast. A switch, if you prefer.
  
  So it falls on me to take the lead here and I couldn't be happier! I believe I will simply focus on relaxation for now. I'll build trust, rapport, and then slowly work our way into a little more erotic.
  
  Just wanted to share! Never in my wildest dreams did I picture this happening in real life.
• slaveofhypnosis

  

  • 8 posts
   

  June 2, 2018 12:42 PM PDT

  you are a very lucky guy Matthew!

• Lady Inamorata

  

  • 3 posts
   

  June 2, 2018 1:01 PM PDT

  Congratulations, Matthew and girlfriend!  I could never be with someone who was not at least open-minded about it.  I married my best friend.  Communication is of the utmost importance.  Here's something that we discovered - even definitions can be different.  Talk about everything and make sure you are both on the same page.  Happy for you.  Enjoy the hell out of each other!

• Matthew Baer

  

  • 4 posts
   

  June 2, 2018 1:37 PM PDT

  Thanks for the positive responses. Safety and trust are our goals. I was the most fortunate man in the world before she and I agreed to this. Lol this adventure just reinforces that.
  
  Slave - Oh, I know exactly how lucky I am. Ha!
  
  Lady Inamorata - that's high praise from a very auspicious Lady such as yourself. Thank you for the wisdom and positivity.
• me chan

  

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  June 2, 2018 5:07 PM PDT

  Glad to hear you're able to express something deeply you like with her, and that she is open to it. Like all the other responses, happy for you and the good times to come. Enjoy.

• Sub Zero

  

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  June 3, 2018 2:25 AM PDT

  Congrats Matthew! Sounds like a dream come true, all the good for you and your girlfriend.

• Deleted Member

  
   

  June 3, 2018 10:09 AM PDT

  Congrats from me as well. May you both be kinky happy, preferably ever after.

  
  This post was edited by Deleted Member at June 3, 2018 10:10 AM PDT
• germshep24

  

  • 8 posts
   

  June 5, 2018 1:09 PM PDT

  Congratulation, I think a lot of people are open to the idea, it is just that we are too afraid to ask and get their thoughts on it. I'm glad you were able to get the nerve to talk to your gf about it and it went positively for you both.